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well, presumably you've been talking to them for the last [time], so just ask them to move your finger, then your arm, then your whole body, then they are the one with consciousness so it's not 'them' anymore it's 'you', so 'you' move the body and do whatever and draw with permanent marker on your face as a prank or something
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk
i don't have an account, feel free to do it!
A long kiss goodnight 7/19/2023 10:52 PM
Fiiine, I will
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Sploda
How do you switch
A long kiss goodnight 7/19/2023 10:54 PM
Do keep in mind a lot of people benefit from the JDI approach. But if for whatever reason it doesn't work, there are other options too
10:54 PM
Since you guys are so new to tulpamancy, I would try the JDI approach first
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sh
well, presumably you've been talking to them for the last [time], so just ask them to move your finger, then your arm, then your whole body, then they are the one with consciousness so it's not 'them' anymore it's 'you', so 'you' move the body and do whatever and draw with permanent marker on your face as a prank or something
Luminesce: That's literally just a full-body possession guide except you threw the word "consciousness" in there (edited)
10:55 PM
Since we try to teach both possession and switching, I think that's not quite good enough instruction (edited)
10:55 PM
Switching should never happen body part by body part
10:56 PM
I know the idea you're recommending is just a way to accept being switched, but it opens up a looooot of room for people having partial/messy switches that are better to avoid by making it a single event rather than a gradual thing
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making it a 'single event' overhypes it and convinces people it's super different leading to old-time ranger and felight situations
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i actually liked the how @Ale𝕏andra 🍄🐈 called it "you can do it!" method because it is closer to what i think works the best and actually there is much more to it than just saying "you just [...]"
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Yes! "You can do it" is the best name for it
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i always tailor the conversation to the person
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Question answered
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk
i don't have an account, feel free to do it!
A long kiss goodnight 7/19/2023 11:09 PM
An what do you want to have as the guide's title?
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 7/19/2023 11:09 PM
JUST DO IT!!!
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A long kiss goodnight 7/19/2023 11:09 PM
Fair enough lol
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 7/19/2023 11:09 PM
🙃
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A long kiss goodnight 7/19/2023 11:09 PM
THIS IS NOT MY GUIDE An (Kitkat) didn't feel like making an account and asked me to post it. Enjoy! Text version: Spoiler JUST DO IT!! Yesterday, you said, "I need a tulpa guide," but I say, "JUST DO IT!!" Cast aside those tedious instructions and formalities, you will forge your tulpa through th...
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 7/19/2023 11:10 PM
🙃 niceeee
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kitkat you should join the forums with me
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 7/19/2023 11:18 PM
are you joining the forums?
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk
🙃 niceeee
A long kiss goodnight 7/19/2023 11:26 PM
I would have called it
KEEP PUSHING THOSE BOUNDARIES
But it's not my guide I wanted you to make the title
(edited)
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sh
i'm on it
KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 7/19/2023 11:27 PM
listen it's enough that i'm disrupting discord
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A long kiss goodnight
I would have called it
KEEP PUSHING THOSE BOUNDARIES
But it's not my guide I wanted you to make the title
(edited)
KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 7/19/2023 11:27 PM
feel free to change it! it fits too
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A long kiss goodnight 7/19/2023 11:27 PM
"Fell free" is not a yes! >:S
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KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk 7/19/2023 11:27 PM
YES
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A long kiss goodnight 7/19/2023 11:28 PM
okie
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A long kiss goodnight
I would have called it
KEEP PUSHING THOSE BOUNDARIES
But it's not my guide I wanted you to make the title
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That sounds a lot less forceful
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A long kiss goodnight 7/20/2023 12:11 AM
I changed it ;)
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How you doing @A long kiss goodnight (edited)
12:12 AM
been a minute
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Does anyone have any advice or exercises for visualization and/or seeing the headspace?
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Oh! I have one
3:31 AM
let me find the link, hang on
3:32 AM
I've been using a technique to enhance the clarity of visualization of my tulpa for a long time; I don't know if it's been posted to the forum yet, so I thought I'd contribute it here. To start, imagine your tulpa in whatever level of detail you can--typically I like to have them in a neutral pos...
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Moon
Does anyone have any advice or exercises for visualization and/or seeing the headspace?
This is the one I use pretty much any time I am focusing on visualization
3:32 AM
I focus on the tulpa in the guide but it can apply to any visualization
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Of course! Good luck
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Hey I need to research how to make a tulpa I want a lot of info not just simple instructions. Can y’all give me some links please
7:18 AM
Also for hallucinating them
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If anyone has knowledge on that
7:21 AM
How do I get them to have their own conscious? Their own mind, to do things themselves so they are fully developed
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Owen ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗ BOT 7/20/2023 7:21 AM
Well, what do you know already?
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Luminesce: "More info" is not always necessarily better, for tulpamancy (edited)
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Owen ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗ BOT 7/20/2023 7:21 AM
It's hard to know how to help if I don't know where you are already.
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Luminesce: I created my tulpas on accident just through lots of focusing on them as if they were independent entities and interacting with them a lot, and we later learned both imposition ("hallucinating" them, but as a skill) and switching just by hearing they were possible and attempting to do them in a way that made sense to us, no guidance. (edited)
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Owen ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗
Well, what do you know already?
I just have basic ideas for them what they look like gender age all that and personally but haven’t done much else yet. They’ve been here for quite a while now tho
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Owen ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗ BOT 7/20/2023 7:22 AM
Define "here".
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If they're already "here", then you've already made a tulpa, it seems.
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Luminesce: Well, don't say I didn't warn you. People who seek out endless info on topics like this tend to make less progress than those who just jumped in and did whatever came to mind, with only "This is possible" to guide them (edited)
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Just a character kind of like the idea i have had stay with me for ages
7:24 AM
Maybe they talk or maybe it’s my other personality’s idk
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Owen ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗ BOT 7/20/2023 7:24 AM
The fundamentals of tulpamancy are forcing and interacting with them. If you do that, you should be fine.
7:24 AM
Don't give it too much thought, either. It's natural to doubt, but doubting does nothing but hinder you.
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I’m trying to make it so the personality’s I have murge into them kinda
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Owen ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗
The fundamentals of tulpamancy are forcing and interacting with them. If you do that, you should be fine.
Okay thx
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Owen ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗ BOT 7/20/2023 7:25 AM
Could you elaborate? I'm unsure what you mean.
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I just have different personality traits and I connect them to the tulpas
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Owen ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗
Could you elaborate? I'm unsure what you mean.
I kind of manifested the traits like confidence and such ig so now I can seem like a completely different person
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Owen ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗ BOT 7/20/2023 7:29 AM
Are these traits independent individuals from you?
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If so, that's pretty much just tulpamancy. You can do the same thing for your tulpa, and you'd get similar results. There's nothing to it.
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But I want them to have the conscience not me
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Owen ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗ BOT 7/20/2023 7:31 AM
Then consider them different form you. That's it.
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Like fully doing things without anything coming from me not being able to predict them
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Owen ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗ BOT 7/20/2023 7:31 AM
Who is and is not "you" is defined by your definition of it.
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That comes with interacting with them more, and them developing their individuality over time.
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It helps to give them chances to explore their own opinions and hobbies, once they're able to communicate.
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Reisen
Luminesce: Well, don't say I didn't warn you. People who seek out endless info on topics like this tend to make less progress than those who just jumped in and did whatever came to mind, with only "This is possible" to guide them (edited)
Understandable I’ve already done this/had this phase
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Owen ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗
It helps to give them chances to explore their own opinions and hobbies, once they're able to communicate.
How do I get them to communicate?
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Owen ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗ BOT 7/20/2023 7:34 AM
Like I previously mentioned; interacting with them and treating them as an individual is essential to their development. You can do whatever it was you did to create your personalities, I'm sure, and it would also work for creating them.
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Can their voice sound different from yours? Do you have to focus on a voice and try to hear it as theirs until/if it becomes natural
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Owen ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗ BOT 7/20/2023 7:37 AM
In the begining, their voice may not sound very different, but don't doubt it. Over time, you and the tulpa can imaine their voice to sound however you'd like it to.
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Owen ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗
Like I previously mentioned; interacting with them and treating them as an individual is essential to their development. You can do whatever it was you did to create your personalities, I'm sure, and it would also work for creating them.
Specifically what do you focus on when creating them?
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Owen ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗
In the begining, their voice may not sound very different, but don't doubt it. Over time, you and the tulpa can imaine their voice to sound however you'd like it to.
Okay
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Luminesce: Not just sound, they will start to "feel" different from you, too (edited)
7:38 AM
All that's really necessary is thinking of them as independent people in your mind and interacting with them as such
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And lots of practice/time spent, consistently preferably
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I’m going to write about them I think that would help
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Luminesce: Any time spent thinking about them is good, but the bulk of the work is done in anticipating responses from them (edited)
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Expectation plays a huge part in telling your brain to create the experience
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I have a question
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Do/can they date each other like alters can or is that weird lol
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Owen ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗ BOT 7/20/2023 7:42 AM
It's quite normal.
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So they can interact with each other too?
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Is that good to do as well/how would u do that?
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Owen ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗ BOT 7/20/2023 7:43 AM
Yes. A tulpa can interact with other tulpas and with you.
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Luminesce: Totally optional, just depends on the relations between your tulpas (edited)
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Owen ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗ BOT 7/20/2023 7:43 AM
A tulpa isn't anything special. They're just another individual.
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Can you interact with a tulpa? Then they can too.
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Reisen
Luminesce: Totally optional, just depends on the relations between your tulpas (edited)
Should/can you pick the relations? Or should you wait and see if they do that themselves
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Owen ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗ BOT 7/20/2023 7:44 AM
I'd recommend the latter.
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Luminesce: Considering how you're talking about trying to choose their personalities, it seems you don't expect to be creating them with who they'll be fully in mind already (edited)
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Owen ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗ BOT 7/20/2023 7:45 AM
You'd want to build a strong relationship with them over time anyways, as you would with anyone you want to have a relationship with, romantic or otherwise.
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Giving them time to develop and bond with you gives room for a stronger relationship of any type.
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Luminesce: You can imagine what your tulpa is going to be like, and they'll probably end up very similar to that (though tend to deviate at least a bit) (edited)
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Owen ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗ BOT 7/20/2023 7:45 AM
Rather than it being more of a "factory setting".
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